VIKTOR FRANKL 1905 - 1997

found this rather informative site http://webspace.ship.edu/cgboer/frankl.html on this man.

read thru some of his theories. i like the way he thinks.

last night, i was introduced to one of the more famous theory of his:

In Man's Search for Meaning, he says this:
"...everything can be taken from a man but one thing: the last of the human freedoms -- to choose one's attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one's own way."

clap clap.

男人女人

havent like any duet since coral sea. this song feels like sea breeze. very light, not sticky like honey, not gloomy like rainy days, not overly sweet like candy, not heavy like autumn.

ultimately every nice gal is singing this:
男人男人 多希望你是好人.

just like every nice guy is singing this:
伤伤伤伤了几回, 也曾经为爱憔悴, 爱情里好人总比坏人狼狈

ha ha..



词/曲：吴克群

许茹芸：
爱爱爱爱了几回
也明白其中滋味
付出的从来不会等于收回
我却还在等待着
谁能出现

阿穆隆：
伤伤伤伤了几回
也曾经为爱憔悴
爱情里好人总比坏人狼狈
我却还是学不会
狠心对谁

许茹芸：
男人男人 多希望你是好人
多希望用你的真
让我不必再心疼

阿穆隆：
女人女人 我答应做个好人
我答应用我一生
来换你的快乐一生


may 好男人 meet the 好女人. yeah..

I promise myself

suddenly, amid the mess in front of my face that i dun really understand, came this scroll.



i promise myself


to be so strong that nothing can disturb my peace of mind

to talk health, happiness, and prosperity to everyone i meet

to make all my friends feel that there is something worthwhile in them

to look at the sunny side of everything and make my optimism come true

to think only of the best, to work only for the best and to expect only the best

to be just as enthusiastic about the success of others as i am about my own

to forget the mistakes of the past and press on to the greater achievements of the future

to wear a cheerful expression at all times and give a smile to every living creature i meet

to give so much time to improving myself that i have no time to criticise others

to be too large for worry, too noble for anger, too strong for fear and to happy to permit the presence of trouble

to think well of myself and to proclaim this fact to the world not in loud words but in great deeds

to live in the faith that the whole world is on my side as long as i am to the best that is in me.




Wah..... let me save the last few hours of today for myself.