Choose

Its good to have choices. Yet recently i encounter increasing incidents that i see that humans are MORE unhappy when they are presented with a choice. -_-''' I really dun understand why. Jen says ppl are afraid of making the wrong choice. But why are people happily ACCEPTING a wrong option? of cos not all the time, you get suffer the wrong fate, but when life present you 2 opportunities, issit good that you can evaluate the options for yourself and see what you like?

Humans are weird. Really weird.

I get increasingly annoyed when i see people wasting their options and giving up totally. I am so often stuck with situations that i have to ACCEPT, not given a choice at all. oh well, if there is any consolation at all, at least i get to choose how i face my dead end. Face my dead end happily or face my dead end unhappily. Either ways i got to face it and ACCEPT.

It seems like life is really testing my patience. In any case, they pick the wrong target. Go pick some weaklings.

JIA YOU BIBI, JIA YOU!

VIKTOR FRANKL 1905 - 1997

found this rather informative site http://webspace.ship.edu/cgboer/frankl.html on this man.

read thru some of his theories. i like the way he thinks.

last night, i was introduced to one of the more famous theory of his:

In Man's Search for Meaning, he says this:
"...everything can be taken from a man but one thing: the last of the human freedoms -- to choose one's attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one's own way."

clap clap.

男人女人

havent like any duet since coral sea. this song feels like sea breeze. very light, not sticky like honey, not gloomy like rainy days, not overly sweet like candy, not heavy like autumn.

ultimately every nice gal is singing this:
男人男人 多希望你是好人.

just like every nice guy is singing this:
伤伤伤伤了几回, 也曾经为爱憔悴, 爱情里好人总比坏人狼狈

ha ha..



词/曲：吴克群

许茹芸：
爱爱爱爱了几回
也明白其中滋味
付出的从来不会等于收回
我却还在等待着
谁能出现

阿穆隆：
伤伤伤伤了几回
也曾经为爱憔悴
爱情里好人总比坏人狼狈
我却还是学不会
狠心对谁

许茹芸：
男人男人 多希望你是好人
多希望用你的真
让我不必再心疼

阿穆隆：
女人女人 我答应做个好人
我答应用我一生
来换你的快乐一生


may 好男人 meet the 好女人. yeah..

I promise myself

suddenly, amid the mess in front of my face that i dun really understand, came this scroll.



i promise myself


to be so strong that nothing can disturb my peace of mind

to talk health, happiness, and prosperity to everyone i meet

to make all my friends feel that there is something worthwhile in them

to look at the sunny side of everything and make my optimism come true

to think only of the best, to work only for the best and to expect only the best

to be just as enthusiastic about the success of others as i am about my own

to forget the mistakes of the past and press on to the greater achievements of the future

to wear a cheerful expression at all times and give a smile to every living creature i meet

to give so much time to improving myself that i have no time to criticise others

to be too large for worry, too noble for anger, too strong for fear and to happy to permit the presence of trouble

to think well of myself and to proclaim this fact to the world not in loud words but in great deeds

to live in the faith that the whole world is on my side as long as i am to the best that is in me.




Wah..... let me save the last few hours of today for myself.

For one more day

i guess i did love my job very much after all, despite all the bitching about it. These 3 days have
been more fulfilling than the past 3 months combined. Yes, i have taken my job for granted, for a while. The energy these 3 days, from the promoters, from my colleagues, from shirley, from my boss, from myself, has brought back alot of positive vibes to my branch. The branch that i have brought up then somehow let it down. Its true ya, that humans dun really know what they have till they lost it. Yet i am grateful that i realised this today. The joy of hearing strangers say "YES!" to me, the joy of facing rejections with a smiling face, the joy of waiting for the cpf page to load and see that i am facing a rich client, the joy of working hand in hand with everyone. I remembered all it. You know, sometimes its really not about the money. Its the thing that fills your heart up and make you feel all warm and loved inside. I have it in my hands all the while.

Tomorrow is the last day before any rule sets in and change the working pattern. I thank whoever is up there to let me see the value of what i have before its gone. I still have a day. Its not very often that human can see the value of what they have, while still having it. I am really grateful. My Toa Payoh is as impressive as Ang Mo Kio and Jurong Point but i never make it happen before.

Thank you for 24, 25, 26 march and the tomorrow that i still have. yeah..

this is what they say about hope..

"Through humor, you can soften some of the worst blows that life delivers. And once you find laughter, no matter how painful your situation might be, you can survive it.”

“Many of the great achievements of the world were accomplished by tired and discouraged men who kept on working.”

“To love is to risk not being loved in return. To hope is to risk pain. To try is to risk failure, but risk must be taken because the greatest hazard in life is to risk nothing.”

“Love comes to those who still hope even though they've been disappointed, to those who still believe even though they've been betrayed, to those who still love even though they've been hurt before.”

“Learn from yesterday, live for today, hope for tomorrow.”

“Never let go of hope. One day you will see that it all has finally come together. What you have always wished for has finally come to be. You will look back and laugh at what has passed and you will ask yourself... 'How did I get through all of that?”


this is my fav. cos i am always saying this when things cant get any worse, it will only get better.
lol.. how ironic that this should be a hopeful quote. this sentence is always said with a hint of numbness and when u kinda give up on something. its not hope.
“When things are bad, we take comfort in the thought that they could always be worse. And when they are, we find hope in the thought that things are so bad they have to get better.”

“Man can live about forty days without food, about three days without water, about eight minutes without air, but only for one second without hope”

“Those who wish to sing always find a song.”

Its cha cha!

senior citizen's fair 08.

de mcee says if u r sad and sitting at home, dance de cha cha. no one can dance with a crying face. LOL..

they dance. they sing. they perform. they laugh and enjoy their lives.

they are 94, 68, 56.

i m only 26. i ought to be celebrating man!

DANCE!!!

dance a little dance of me.

thanks for the songs. i can start dancing again! i never know i will do the silly agogo dance again, jerking my head here and there in the bathroom.

I told her, nothing should stop you from getting wat you want. I saw her went ahead. I think she will understand wat i mean for once.

he is having a little concert. he asked if anyone wanna watch. its like deja vu. jus that no one ever come and watch me. I brought all the medals back anyhow.

they played a little game. when have i become so focussed suddenly.

2 stupid people sitting side by side, telling each other stop being stupid.

leftover beers still serve its purpose. HENG AR.